Saturday, March 28, 2009

The Pact.

Poor Mr T. He had a bad night last night. He was up at 3 am with only a little restless sleep from then. I think it was his teeth. He has all his teeth except his two bottom incisors which are inflamed red mounds in his gums. They look painful and I'm sure they are.

A Good Man was a good man and got up with his son in the night. He is always the one to get up. It's because we made a pact when T turned one. A Good Man has always wanted at least three children. When T was one, I announced that if he wanted me to consider having another baby, he had to take over night duties. That's it... I was just too tired... A Good Man did! He gets up to pat T back to sleep just about every night. He never complains. He gets up, stumbles through to T's room, pats his back a couple of times and then stumbles back to bed. When he gets back, I rub his shoulder briefly to say thank you before falling back into lovely sleep. Sometimes I even sleep through this ritual. 

Unfortunately, last night, patting didn't do it's magic and T just couldn't sleep. He didn't seem uncomfortable and didn't cry, but was wide awake and restless. A Good Man sat with him lovingly. I relieved him at 5am and lay with T in his bed. I have to admit that I loved it. T hugged me, he kissed me, whispered 'Mummmmmyyyy' into my ear, snuggled his warm little body into mine. I was reminded, once again, how precious all the little moments are... more precious than jewels and silver and, yes, even sleep!

6 comments:

dongdong said...

what a wonderful hubby! So are you working on the next one yet? ;) You are so sweet too. Those moments are the really a treasure. I tell my children they are my "little treasure". (translated from Chinese)

That's how I am too. A lot of time when one of the our kids cries or wakes up for some reason, I nudge my hubby and he will go see what needs to be done.

Joy said...

A Good Man is definitely a good man. :) I'm sure your kids (and you) appreciate such a loving daddy.

Yarrow said...

Love, love your blog! How lovely. What beautiful work you do, and the darling kiddies. I will return to read you again. Blessings.

anthromama said...

He sounds like a keeper! :-)

Lisa said...

Ahhhh, my littlest one is my cuddle cakes. So sweet, makes me want to cuddle my girls right now, but I might wake them (and I don't want to do that). ;)

Tammy said...

He is DEFINITELY "a good man."

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